You need to set a obituary level that includes personal sounds (2, 4, 6 or
config\monitoring.cfg
//******************************************************************************
// Obituary Messages
//******************************************************************************
// 0 = disable (off, but still does stats)
// 1 = stock obituary with stats
// 2 = stock obituary with stats and personal sound
// 3 = stock obituary with stats and personal message
// 4 = stock obituary with stats, personal sound and personal messages (default)
// 5 = eXtreme+ obituary with stats
// 6 = eXtreme+ obituary with stats and personal sound
// 7 = eXtreme+ obituary with stats and personal messages
// 8 = eXtreme+ obituary with stats, personal sound and personal messages
set ex_obituary "4"